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STOP!!!!


You have to stop the thoughts inside your head from wandering into places that it shouldn't.

They will destroy you and make you ill.

I know exactly how you feel right now and so do most of the people on this board, so vent it all here.

Leave the OW and her parents alone, they are not worth it, I assure you.

The things going on in your head are worse then the reality.

(((CM)))) The old marriage is dead.
You need to grieve it, and you need to feel all of the pain and then find the strength to rise above it.

Whatever you will have with your Husband wil be new, and different. It will never be the same again but it can be so much better.

I promise.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.