Hope keep the emphasis on your screen name and I'm certain you will attain what you are seeking. I for one see 'hope' in your situation. Unlike mine your H has maintained contact with you throughout all of this (even if it has been a bit sporadic). Mine lives less than a mile away and we haven't seen him for 6 weeks. He only sees the kids on 'his' terms otherwise he isn't interested. ((((((((Hugs))))))))
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15