I tried to say no contact at all at one point and he threatened me to go right back and live with her explaining to me they have found a huge lump in her breast and they and she are not opptomistic hELP?
Take advice from someone not piecing?
I may not belong in this section but I have this little thing about boundaries.
If my W came home........and that's a big if at this point, anyway if she came back and said somthing like this I don't think she would like my answer much.
I would simply tell her she was free to go back, and if or when the OP passed away to never even consider coming around again. The way I look at it is that I have been through enough and I will not tolerate a second split.
hELP? 
