Thanks so much for coming to sit on my curb for a while. Ya'll know how nice it is to be thought of here and I appreciate each of you.
COG, thanks for taking the time to 'blog up' on me and give me feedback about it - was well-needed, and I think you are right. (alert the media, I am conceeding a point. may not happen again in this lifetime!)
soreheart, you are spot-on about the unemployed/manhood issue. HUGE. BIG. can't see a way around it. He does go to the gym almost every day, which is a big help in the not-losing-his-mind department. But circumstances need to move there for him to climb back mentally. Sadly enough, here is all this FREE TIME in his world to WORK ON HIS MARRIAGE but he can't. I worry that when he is once again in a job that he will throw everything into the j-o-b, just like always, and find his validation there, spend all his free time there, and have the perfect excuse again not to work on the M b/c he's BUSY.
Fears, fears, everywhere. That one is my biggie. Well, you know, other than never having sex again. Also a possibility.
Must sleep. (yawn!)
Smooches to all my manly friends for sitting on the curb here and holding my hand. So thankful.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
