I also wanted to say how appalled I was at how quickly the OW got a D. She sounds like a predator. Telling your husband where to sleep and for you to move on. Is she a control freak? Does she even want a R or just someone to manipulate and control? I bet she already has another man lined up for when your husband dumps her. I do not like scandalous women. She obviously has no class or character. I honestly doubt she even has any REAL feelings. There is just something about her and her husband adding the stipulation no boyfriendSSS around the kids? Sounds like she may have a track record and he finally got tired of her wicked ways so agreed to the D.