When the Shrink first said what he said to me, I thought he had lost his entire case of marbles.
His point was not on judging whether something was appropriate or not. His point was... "how well do you know yourself? How far are you willing to go? What is acceptable within the context of your marriage? Do you even KNOW? If something DOES get out of hand... what will you do? Have you ever thought about it? If you can't handle something getting out of hand... why are you allowing it?"
His base recommedation: "Know thyself. Who Are You? What Do You Stand For? Where Is Your Line of Integrity?"
