I find this story interesting because I can see parallels with your exH’s attitude toward you and some of the ideas Blackfoot has been bantering about lately. His idea of bring his own person, finding a woman who will accept him for what he is, who can hold onto herself while he goes into his cave, all sound similar to your ex. Do you see a similarity or am I misinterpreting? If things are similar, this might be good perspective for him to consider how his ideas might play out with his future partner in real life…..
