Well on Sunday is our wedding anniversary. 9 years now, and things are still going well.
H admitted to me today that he IM'd someone that supposedly knew him from his MLC days. He said he felt bad and apologized for it. It didn't really bother me. But, suggested that he remove his profile from where ever and that may help.
H also asked if I thought he was "better". Mainly because he feels like he's been trying hard to be a better husband and Dad. I validated him and told him that the boys and I enjoy his company. And am glad he decided to stick around.
He also suggested that we look at places to renew our vows. He said that he would like to do that to have a "clean slate" of sorts. Which will in turn make him feel better about where he is emotionally at this point. We are planning a family trip (with my parents, etc.) to Vegas in Sept. so he suggested when we go we can look at places then.
And this weekend we are planning on staying in a hotel for our anniversary. We have booked a nice room for the kids and the two of us. We are both looking forward to getting away, even if it's still in town.
All in all things are going well. I still struggle with certain things, but as time has passed it gets easier.
P and S....
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides. - David Viscott
