Yes, OW's husband needs to read DB too. I've offered it to him many times, but now I think he's ready. Like me in the beginning, I was too freaked out to concentrate on reading anything.
He called again today to tell me he'd had lunch with her, she let him hold her hand. He told her again that he wants her home, and then told her not to worry about my H as he has a home to go to also, and a wife who loves him. Like any other time they talk about me, she said she doesn't understand why I'm not calling him all the time, and that my H tells her I'm just fine with getting a D. Very strange.
Thank you for telling me I'm doing a good job and am strong. I sure don't feel like it most of the time! I am having a good day today however, and feel a little strong. No tears so far.
Danu
Everything happens for a reason, and through this journey I will learn many things about myself