Heya Chrome. It truly doesn't matter what our vows said. I've argued vows with her before. I end up eating my own tail. Logic has no place here. I've been getting much more satisfactory results from the BF/NOP approach of just being the best Hairdog I can be, standing in her way, getting and giving the hugs/kisses I want, and, when that doesn't work, shrugging it off with a funny comment a la, "your loss, babe."
Still no sex, but at least I can look myself in the eye (using a mirror of course).
However, I actually like your question, and my reply to Corri's answer. I'm really diggin' it, as a matter of fact.
