I hope I do not offend. But did your marriage vows say something along the lines of "love, honor, cherish?" If so, have you ever asked your W what those words mean? Or if she is the sole person who gets to decide how to love, honor, and cherish you, no matter if you don't feel loved, honored, and cherished?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
