"Given that we are married, if you have no sexual desire for me, can you see how that is a problem?"
Ms.Hdog would see this as a non sequitur. She might respond with something like, "We are married, yes. You equating marriage with sex or with the assumption that sexual desire should be present in a marriage is the result of old sociological overlays. It's how men attempted to control women's bodies, and it's not something I think is generally relevant today, or in our marriage, specifically."
