i've been here for a while, mostly only on the "We're Separated" board. my H and i have been separated on and off for over a year now. will give all of the details later, but i basically pushed him out of my life and then when i decided to try and reconcile, he was already seeing someone. well, H and i have also had a physical relationship ever since mid december when i began the reconciliation process. so he is having cake and eating it too in a big way. is anyone else out there experiencing this, and how are you handling it? my DB coach says that i ought not put too much emphasis on his R with OW, and that if i can handle it, that the physical part is a good thing. i don't know.
