Question for Corri/Fearless/whoever feels like answering, in regards to your discussion about your SO making statements about how you should feel, or why you shouldn't feel a certain way. I'll admit I have been guilty of making statements in that vein on occasion, and I can see how such statements are unwise at best, manipulative at worst. How about the following statement?
"Given that we are married, if you have no sexual desire for me, can you see how that is a problem?"
I can see how one can argue that you are telling someone how they should feel. But it seems to me that sexual desire being absent in a marriage is a problem no matter which way you look at it. Or maybe you would just argue that such a question is pointless. I can see that too.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
