The problem with therapy is that some people go into it as if they were going in to a combination magician/priest/the ideal parent they never had. When the transference kicks in (that is, when you start having feelings about your therapist that are similar to or the same as feelings you had for your parents), then if the therapist screws up, you feel that primal betrayal all over again. This won't usually happen in the first few sessions. All the more reason to make sure you are very comfortable with the therapist and have build up solid trust before you hand over the goods (as it were). Kind of like getting married...
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Cac4, I learned to ask more questions before hand and take longer at inspecting the final product before singing off or saying good job. I work at my delivery and content when I speak to someone about what I feel is poor service or product.
You should take this approach with the C, too. If it's not working for you, speak up. For what you have to pay for it, I always like to make sure I'm getting my money's worth!
