What I do personally is try to remind myself of the difference so I do not mistake an assumption for fact.
What's wrong if you do mistake one for the other? What's the big deal?
C'mon. I'm giving you HUGE hints about those real issues you want to find in me! It does feel like a big deal to me. I hate to make mistakes. I can handle other people's mistakes easily. They are human, it happens, etc. But me, I NEED to be perfect. (Just writing that sentence down has me fighting back tears and sobbing) I know other people don't understand; I do not understand it yet but I am trying to work on it.
Step back and look at the tone in your posts. They are all conciliatory.
Yes I know. Especially the last few posts yesterday. With the NOP and LFL exchange I thought they had slipped by everyone. maybe I hoped they had. Good catch.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
