He even at one point threatened me to go back to her if he could not keep in contact with her in the middle of the conversation. =============================
Oh man, is my blood boiling. He needs to choose, this is ridiculous!!!! I don't know what whatisis or muddle over at infidelity would do, but if this was my H he'd get the boot (both DBers deal w/something similar, I'd go over and ask them a few questions)
They are tight??? you should do stuff for her?? it seems to me they are both using you as a doormat. You should NEVER have to put up a facade and tell him it is OK when it clearly IS NOT. This man isnt' respecting you, and is being manipulated by ow and jerking you around to accomodate them both. You are worth more than that. Do yourself a favor, set up a C appointment and go with him, this way you'll see how ridiculous his demands are. IF he doesn't want to go go alone, you need a third person to listen to the nonsence he's fed you.
Enough is enough, you took him back, offered your forgiveness and now he's tellin gyou he won't cut it w/her. There are people here in DB who put up w/that kind of crap, being married still, living /the S and the S still being great chums w/the OP. Dont' know how they do it but ask yourself if this is the kind of life you want to have from now on, having the ow in between you two.
Just read your first posts, it seems he isn't ready at all to commit to you and grow up.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
