Thanks guys,

Jeanette - thanks for your hug across the water...and it wasn't even a wet hug !!!

PWS - didn't get your post, sorry !! hahaha

Brandnewday - so many hugs to day, you spoil me rotten !!

NJ - you're so right, I keep thinking I have something to be sorry about, like everything is my fault, every time, but You're right, NO ONE in his RIGHT mind would let a 3rd person into a marriage....


OK GUYS - I'm off to dinner with two friends - I got a spontaneous invite this afternoon, see I am capable of GAL !!! hahahaha - You have all been so sweet and loving to me today, thanks....I really had a bad day and needed the support so badly. I'm off to 'try again', detach more, not feel so much guilt, and to try not to believe H's truths.....

Will check in later, shouldn't be out too late !!!

THANK YOU WONDERFUL FRIENDS !!!!


Love Cinders xxx

"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus

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