Jen,

You'll make yourself crazy if you keep trying to figure out what he's thinking. We all do it, I know it's hard not to. I'm working on developing a new habit. When I find myself "mind reading", I do sit-ups. Of course this only works when I'm in a place where I can. Otherwise i use the "stop sign" or a THICK rubberband on my wrist.

You can make today better for yourself. I know you will.