You are right. I think the crux of everything is communication and just because we get back together with our spouses (even if our marriages weren't horrible), it doesn't mean there aren't the same problems bubbling up.
Somehow my husband and I will need to come to a compromise.
Of course, I was pretty crazed during that first weekend and did some major anti-DB things (left messages on his phone that I shouldn't have). He hasn't gotten them yet because his cell phone is getting no service there.
Oh well....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
