I imagine we are also supposed to be civil to the OM, too if our spouses end up marrying them -- for the sake of our kids.
I will vent with you T....F-That....I do not ever think I could be civil to JSO. I have been too nice to the two of them as it is...
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What's the future hold? An amicable divorce where I'm a weekend dad and the OM gets to raise my sons and daughters? That fuck-face gets to steal my wife AND kids? Oh yeah, where I live, mothers generally get principle custody. By the way, he's been chronically unemployed for years. Imagine this -- I get to pay alimony, which might support him financially.
Hey T, I feel your pain and I am sorry brother. Unfortunately you have two ways to deal with it though....You can go through life being pissed off @ F-Face and letting him fill the rest of your life with unhappines and anger. Or you can choice to just let go of it and realize that there is nothing that any of us can do to change the F-ed up sitchs that we are in and move one. I chose option two because I want to be happy and I am not going to let the two of them bring me down anymore. They almost got a year out of my life and I decided it was time to take it back and be as happy as possible for my kids sake. Not too mention my own sanity.
I am very sorry for what you are going through T and I can tell you that it will get better if you take control back and make it better.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
