Well yesterday was very interesting.. to say the least~
I began my day by dropping off my kids at school like always. And then I headed to the Gym with alot of energy. I did my workout amd ran some errands and came home and called my H like I do everyday when I arrive from the Gym. It was already 1:30 pm. I talked to him for @ 10 minutes and let him go and told him I ( AND THE KIDS) would call him @ 5 pm before I took the kids swimming to the YMCA. ( he loves for me to call him alot, I used to feel like I was bugging him or neede to give him space while he was with his family but he needs it to feel secure somehow so now I call alot at least 1-3 times a day) ) So I quick went to visit my nephew,, it was his 1st birthday . He is soooooooooooo super cute. Children are so precious... Then I went to pick up my kids from school. I made them an early dinner and we called my H around 5 pm or so~ His sister answered the phone and said he was outside talking to someone and if I could wait a bit I said sure and I gave the phone to our S7 and then my H started talking to our son... MY H jokingly asked my son if I was seeing any guys... and my 7 year old said "No ,not really Dad." ( Kids are so cute) So then MY H says to him "Well you take care of Mommy and do not let any strangers or MEN talk to her OK?" And my S7 response..." So basically that means all MEN-ok-I got it~!" Is my son adorable or what?
Geez my H is a regular comedian these days. Well he does always try to make us laugh but usually he is far too jealous to joke so lightly about what he did with my son. He IS~ growing up. Thank GOD~
He talked to our daughters, we were all laughing and then he talked to me and told me to think of him while I went to the Gym again and to have a good workout. I told him I always think of him and it helps me to work harder.
I planned on exercising if I had energy ... while the kids swam and played in the kids area. I told him I would call again at 8 or 8:30 when we got home. And he said "OK." He sounded sad so I said " Hey stop being sad and smile~" And I said "You are not smiling dont lie~" ( in a sweet happy voice) And he said " Ok you are right now I am." I dunno how we got on the subject of his Dad but he told me he was not home.... I said " Yes I know sweetie... you are very light and Happy when he is around and when he is not you do not even have to tell me, I can tell right away..."
He didnt disagree...
The kids and I arrived @ 9 pm.... they had a blast. And Yes I did lift weights again and walked for @ 20 minutes too and then went into the Sauna for @ 20 minutes too it was actually very relaxing....
When we arrived I see that my H has called 4 times between 7:45 and 8:30... ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
I dial his parents number and ask for him and his sister says he has left for the nite ...he went out and to call tomorrow and I say ok thank you very much..bye~ While I am talking to her my call waiting is clicking and I look and it is MY H!!!!???? I click over and he says "I have been trying to call you."
and I say " Honey~ I was just trying to call you and talking to your sister."
And he says in a cute funny annoyed voice " TALKING TO MY SISTER YEAH SURE I CALLED YOU MANY ,MANY TIMES...."
And then I say LAUGHING " No really I was talking to her we just back from the Y..."
And he says " Yeah suuuuuuuuuuuure the Y .. I believe you.."
he goes on to say in his cute funny annoyed voice still " you jerk, punk a%%,etc etc..." So by now I AM JUST LAUGHING SO HARD.
( HE NORMALLY GETS IRRATE ( TO PUT IT MILDLY) IF I DO NOT ANSWER. SUPER HUGE 180 FOR HIM.. I LOVED IT)
AND I say " here talk to your daughter she will tell you you dork..."
my daughter gets on and says " DADDY, quit being so silly we just got home.."
He says he will call me in a minute. and I say "ok ,hurry up....." I normally never tell him to hurry up. I felt so secure though he made me feel good. I was smiling ear to ear.
He called me back right away and I told him I worked out again and he said he likes to hear that and I made him real happy.... and then he said he was going to play pool and when he left he would call me.. and he ended it with ILY.... Very out of the Norm for him... can anyone decode his Man code and why he was being so awesome?
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I felt like I was dreaming~ What happenned to my H and where have you hidden him?
He did call @ 12:30 am we were talking for a bit and then I heard a phone ringing in the backround?????? and he hung up on me.. he called me back and I said why did you hang up on me? who was that and he said it was for his cousin ( @ 12:30 am? @ his parents? I am confused...) I did not mention that I thought for an instant he was lying but he could tell in my voice... D*MN! and he said "Why do you like to make me feel bad? " I said "I am not trying too..its just as if the record has been scratched we were having such a nice convo....." he talked to me for awhile and then let me go....
WOW~ is all I can say. Somebody pinch me I surely must be dreaming.. this can not be REAL. No nevermind if this what being Happy and feeling good no great in my M feels like ..
. He is soooooooooooo super cute. Children are so precious...
