jbf,

No experience with the OP thing, but just keep in mind that if your W is breathing when she talks to you, she may be lying. Chances sre she doesn't know how she feels herself. I know this doesn't make you feel any better. I'm sorry.

IMO too bad if she's annoyed that you and your D have things you do on Sautrday. Your D should keep to a routine as much as possible. This helps us all cope, let alone kids. Your W walked away, she just doen't get to have everything she wants when she wants it.

I know your hurting. Make today a good one though. You can.

HUGS