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JBF,
Maybe the new job, and the greater distance, would help your W understand and live with the boundaries you are setting for your D. It really does seem that she's a teenager; selfish, or rather self centered - unable to see things from others point of view.

Does anger help you deal with the panic? Anger can be useful, I think, if it's channeled correctly.

Patience is the key word. That, and detach. Of the many key words two of them are.... nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!

Thanks for your support JBF, and really hoping today is a better one.