I don't think I was around on the threads as much when Dallas Lisa was helping you the most. Also missed out on most of BigAl's journey and all the friends gathered with him. I believe spitfire was very active then also.
Such a great bunch of folks and all a success story in what they have managed. You too are a success. Look back at how this all started and how well you doing today in comparison. You have not yet found what lies at the end of your journey.
There is no rush, so much to see and do along the way. Life is good if we let it.
Anyway, I guess if I start feeling the ground shaking here in Dallas I will know it is because spitfire and Lisa have finally gotten together. Better go warn the neighbors!!!!
Have a great day Hope, make a great day, let some sun shine into your day.
Hi Was2, Lisa is SmartnSassy, but I do not think she posts as often anymore. She was over in infidelity when I first got here and used to post there frequently.
Yes, you are right, there is no rush. I think sometimes I want to rush it because I need to know if H and I are going to get back together. To be very honest with you, I do not "feel" that strongly about it anymore. I really used to think we would. Even with original ow out of the picture now I thought he would be ready to try. Not thus far though. And he has told me he can't just "jump right back into it" with me; that he is not ready for that. I do not know what he is trying to say when he says this...because after that remark I later found out he was casually seeing that friend of his. So it comes off like, "I'm not ready to reconcile because I'd rather cast my net large and wide, date around and see if I can do better than you before I resign myself to coming back to you." Maybe that is the wrong interpretation, but that is how it felt. I do not know if he's dating anyone now. If not, then that gives me hope. But to bring someone new into this situation will only continue to distract him and cause more guilt, won't it? He says he is so guilty over cheating on me and needs time to get over that...so he started spending his free time with a different woman? Nice irony, H. Just some thoughts today... Thanks, Was2. You know I love to hear from you. You are so wise and steady. I feel very lucky to have "met" you on here and your support has always meant so much to me.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
Hope keep the emphasis on your screen name and I'm certain you will attain what you are seeking. I for one see 'hope' in your situation. Unlike mine your H has maintained contact with you throughout all of this (even if it has been a bit sporadic). Mine lives less than a mile away and we haven't seen him for 6 weeks. He only sees the kids on 'his' terms otherwise he isn't interested. ((((((((Hugs))))))))
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Your not the only one who feels like they are rushing. I rush all the time...which is why I feel like the last 17 months has been just a blur. It's hard waiting and wondering. But we are given no choice, so all you can do sweetie is hand it over... Oneday this life we are living is going to be better!!!
Have a great friday and a wonderful weekend!
Love you
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Just catching up with your thead. You sound really good today. I'm glad you have such a big, strong family to lean on. It must be wonderful. Enjoy the baby. She's lucky to have been born into that family!
Have a wonderful day.
Hugs, Sun
"Tell me what you plan to do with your one wild and precious life." Mary Oliver
Thanks my friends. I'm doing ok. Except coming down with a little cold. I did so well this winter...NO colds, which is unheard of for me. But considering all the stress I had in the last couple of weeks, I am not surprised I caught one.
Baby is great! I went to see her today, with a new outfit. Auntie cannot stop buying little dolly clothes for her niece. Things are going fine so far; so thankful.
Still awaiting word re: job. I should know by Monday whether I got it. It came down to two people, and I was one of them. I'm praying, but it's up to God.
Thanks for all the support; it means so much every day.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
