That's brilliant that your H has said ILY. My H has been back 4 months now and is still in the spare room and still has not said ILY. I'm trying to stay patient because he does talk about the future and doing things together so he obviously plans to stay around. Would be nice to hear those 3 little words though!
Well done you! You deserve to be proud of yourself. I agree, it is a lovely feeling to think that you have saved your marriage all by yourself. Especially when everyone around you think you must be totally mad to put up with some of the things that we have had to put up with!!