Nop You just don't stop. That's where you are at fault. No matter what people say to you, you seem to have an explanation, an answer, a justification, etc. People like you are impossible to treat because they are always right. Notice how MrsNop has adjusted to Your schedule, isn't it sex every day in your house? That is not realistic for most people on this board. Not that you are pushing that but it's interesting that it is the arrangement in your home. You get your way. About your comments to me.
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I was not aware that you are a therapist. I do hope that you are getting some good therapy, especially if you are practicing. If I were a client, I would find your posted behaviors quite disturbing. I intend no disrespect.
How do you make a comment like that and intend no disrespect. Of course you do or you wouldn't have said it. Fine. Therapists are not little robotic people with all the answers and/or the moral fortitude that you seem to think you have. I came to this board at my lowest in life. My H had left me, I made bad choices not long after, I struggled with doing the best, most healthy things for me and my family, but I AM doing them. Why is that "disturbing"? I've lived through many issues that people struggle with everyday. I can either use that to learn and grow or not. I choose to continue posting on this board NOT to spread an "I'm right you are wrong" attitude but to share my experiences and learn from others. It has been been helpful at times and not at others. The whole situation with Chrome was an area where I got in over my head. I recognize it and that is for ME to figure out. I don't need you or anyone else to rehash how Wrong it was. I'm not stupid. And this
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I think you fear your husband coming here, finding out about you and your liaisons, then snooping on you.
Wrong assumption again Nop. Thanks for being the Morality Police as usual but my H is fully aware of this board and like Many other spouses, chooses not to participate. And guess what, I know you will be disappointed that you don't have this in your back pocket anymore, but he knows all about Chrome too. (Sorry Chrome, just had to get this out). He found some emails and obviously we had a long discussion about it. Interestingly enough, that was a good turning point for us and we have been making steady progress ever since. Anything else you want to assume about me and judge me on? Feel free. I can take it.
