Wow Cissy! First off you handled that amazingly! Way better then I could have! I don't really have any words of advice here, because I am not to sure how I would handle it! You are really strong! and the only thing I could say is you handle this the way that works for you and no one else!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!