Once you learn how to use the right tools for the job you will find it easier to cope.
For now, for whatever reason your Husband is broken.
He has always been broken but something made him snap.
The only person who can "fix" him is himself.
As he tries to figure out the mess in his head he will make some really bad choices. He will try new things to help him to feel better and he will hurt the people around him tremendously.
You know that kid's toy with the shapes. You have to put the right shape in the right hole to complete the game...well your Husband is still trying to figure out what shape goes where.
The good part is that he will "get it" eventually.
MLC'ers are slow learners. They keep making mistakes over and over again.
So for now, sit back, work on weeding out the thoughts in your head, and working on your own garden.
As for me, I am enjoying the bountiful harvest
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
