Also check out the program by Dr Ellen at http://www.lightherfire.com. I think this program works best if you are somehow living together in the same house. Otherwise it will improve how you relate to women in general and improve any potential future relationship. Personally I do not recommend coaching through Dr Ellen I think because she didn't tell me what I wanted to hear but you can email her for some free advice if you like.
I too am going through a separation and a possible divorce. But nothing ever comes close to the person we married to begin with. This much I am sure. So any help would be most appreciated. Link below: