Do you think he is feeling comfortable with the NC because you are not a threat to him? I mean, you don't question, you are not around, he may find this non-threatening and feel there is not a chance you will be controlling and manipulative in his mlc mind.
Does that make sense?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19