BI, I to, think you should let your H know that you want to trust him again. Tell him to change his passwords and release that part of your relationship. I had the same problem, - which was snooping. Every time H left his phone where I could see it I would look at it and all the past calls and tm he sent and received. As soon as I made the sound effort to stop doing this, it released me from that bitterness, and made ME feel better. In doing that I treated him better. I am not saying its easy, in fact there are times when I think to myself – oh let me just look he won’t know – but I WILL know and the Lord will know that I looked, as when I made that decision I decided to give that demon to the Lord, and He is blessing me everyday. I know its hard to trust again, but we can do anything through the Lord. Another thing I wanted to ask, with your H out of work, it must be a huge blow to his manhood. Is there no way that he can just do anything for a while just to get out the house?
