Hey, Of. I've kept up with your thread but never posted here. Something you said above struck a cord with me. The part where your W said she hasn't been true to herself and has been living up to everyone else's expectations for so long. I've heard the exact same thing from my W many times.
Can I ask what exactly it is you do for a living? You seem so collected and so insightful I was just curious. I wish I could be like that. People who see me every day don't realize what a mess I am. I really let my W get away with too much which I am starting to realize may be my biggest character flaw. I'll do anything as long as it makes her happy all the while resenting her for it.
