Choc, I would have asked but it wasn't my marriage seminar.
I told my W about this statement and she looked at me like DUH! BB was the one wanting to go to the motel most all of the time.
I was still supporting my mother and didn't see how I could support a W if BB got PG. I didn't want to wind up like other couples that I sae that got PG before they cut the wedding cake.
What I saw were two people that used getting PG as the stone to trip over when they had an argument. I has way too much arguing and fighting as a kid I didn't want more when I got married.
In some ways, BB was what I needed to break me out of my stiff shirt, play it safe mode. We put hickies on top of hickies and touched, groped everything gropable, almost every night we went out. Even sampled the cake a few times but were always worred that her friend might not show up.
Back to the seminar. So BB asked me if she should appologise to me. I said no way.
According to what usually goes on and some of the things discussed here, the seminar has some holes in it according to what is typically posted here.
One topic was how men like sex. Again I almost said, "but I know a woman on DB that wants way more sex than her H". "In fact I think I can find 5 or 10 women that claim sex doesn't happen often enough."
Imagine what would have been said if I did that?
Again, it wasn't my seminar. For now I will listen to what they have to say but will form my own cures for our M based on information and help from several sources. I will try things and measure the results.
