Ever since I met OW's Husband, I've been trying to tell him that I think they're both in MLC, and have offered to lend him my books, made him copies of stuff, etc. He's in counseling with two people now (one's a minister). Well, he's finally taking some of my advice! He's devouring one of the books I sent him (When a Mate Wants Out) and he's starting to really get it!
He's been calling her almost every day, and over the weekend called me to tell me he'd actually gone 3 whole days with no contact! He had to talk to her about a financial matter, and told her about the book (said he bought it) and wants her to look at it. She didn't say yes, and she didn't say no. His counselor told him it was OK to do this. He also asked her if she really wants a D. and she wouldn't answer him.
Finally there's hope in his voice when he called me tonight! He also said he asked his daughter if she planned on staying with her mom, and she said no. So, why did H come and get his bed??? We're trying not to read too much into that.
Danu
Everything happens for a reason, and through this journey I will learn many things about myself
