Cinders, I met H through a friend. H was seperated and living at his mom's with a D pending...this is what I was told...I pray everyday that I was not OW...Knowing H's track record...who knows?? My C says that I was most likely not OW b/c we would not have lasted as long as we have! We never had any marital problems..he just one day said ILYBINILWY...and out the dooor he went...the week b/f xmas. XW is around...seen her many times over the years at functions for the boys...we don't acknowledge each other and she had tried to cause major problems between H and I in the beginning. She does not take the high road and is very vindictive. I would not contact her now...she would probably laugh at me and tell me I told you so... H called a little while ago...supposedly p/u kids at 6 tomorrow for 2 hours...I asked him how his first day went and what he did...at the end of the very brief conversation I told him to have a good night..bye. Maybe killing him with a little kindness (180....)will make a little difference...at least with me! I still want to puke knowing OW is 23!!!
