hmm... be careful here stubborn. Don't start to have hopes about the trouble in paradise. You are deserving of your W choosing you b/c she wants you and not b/c of trouble in paradise.
As far as vaca goes... no expectations. Goals are fine, but don't necessarily expect them to be met. Plan on enjoying yourself. And if W comes thru, great. If not, let her brood by herself while you and D have a great time and make great memories. Don't waste any more time... enjoy each day for what it is!
Plan on having a great time. I hope it's wonderfuL!