Although I do envy you, UA, and I think you and your H have a very good chance of all working out, I feel bad for you too. I'm sorry he hasn't moved back yet. I'd move back quickly if I were him.
She is still at home, pleasant to me, will go out with me, we've been to MC and she has agreed to more (although I don't think she is happy with it, but I could be wrong). There are some positives. We've been talking a lot more, and some interesting topics and issues have come up. She is trying to open up. I think we are growing closer, even if she hasn't decided that is what she wants. We are not sharing a bed. :-( ML is a loaded topic for us. She felt she could never please me or live up to my expectations. She was partly right. My expectations were way whacked. I've learned. She is pretty good at ML, not that I have much experience, but I was happy. My expectations had to do with feeling loved and the frequency of ML. I blew a good thing in many ways.
I made some time and checked out your topic. Looks like it got highjacked a little bit. I guess I'm not the only flirt on the boards.
I really hope your H does come back to you and your bed for good. I think the odds are way in your favor.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
