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It seems you have to work on the relationship to improve the sex life, and simultaneously you work on the sex life to improve the relationship.

Darn chicken and egg.
It can be a real PITA.
I think you have a great outlook on the M though. It will take time and lots of effort.
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have read that intimacy is helping each other to become the best we can be. I like that definition.

Me too. \:\)