I totally agree with you cissy!
I didn't have the affair, but I am paying the biggest for it, I am having to do the work, walking on eggshells, while he gets to take his time! Sometimes its just not fair!
The one thing that sticks with me alot is that he has yet to apologize for anything, things he said, the way he acted anything!
Its like because he was depressed that gave him the get out of jail free card!
But I guess this is the road that I have chosen for now and so I have to walk down!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda