Is she still at home? Have you seen any positives? One definite positive is that she hasn't moved forward. Stop festering on what if's - they will kill you. (meaning the job)
not sure if I'm keeping the guys in line over there ....LOL
Understandable that you want your W. Are you sharing a bed? Have you talked about counseling?
For me, when our bomb droppped, H moved across the hall for 7 weeks. He moved back to our bed for a time and then moved out on 1 Jan. He has since been back in our bed but has not moved back home. That is all I really want - him back in our bed permanently.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...