My H OW is pressuring him to get me to file. My lawyer is a friend of the family, so it wont cost me much. I did file, put it on hold and last Oct started again. He got served in Nov. and told me to put everything on hold. Then the next day went off on me for it saying I wanted maintenance. Well anyway, 3 weeks ago I called and told him I didnt have it in my heart to get the D. He said to do what I had to do and put it on hold. But hurry and call the attorny so we wont have to go to court. I put it on hold again, but didnt tell him for sure. Well I found out that the OW knows. I asked him and he said he did tell her becuz she kept asking him. I am keeping it on hold and if he wants it he will have to get it himself. Let her pressure him. Funny thing is she is not D'ed either. They atarted and never went to the last court date. It got dismissed by the judge. Idiots!!! Sorry for posting on your thread! rabsnider
