Life of Job

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Theoden;
I have to leave the office soon, so I will post here later tonight to you. For now all I can say is that I think my kids are already putting two and two together.

I could stand up and name the sin for what it is and condemm their mother, but in the process what example do I set for them about forgiveness? When the thing does go south, what are they going to remember, that Dad stood up for his principles?

I in no way intend to leave it at "it is OK" for people to do this to each other, but for right now I don't think it accomplishes anything other than to make me feel better because now my kids know what a foul person their Mother has become.

I have no intention of remaining friends with wife if we are ever divorced, I would find that too painful, and as I have said before she has not become a person I would be friends with.

I will post more later.