Hi, Heather.

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So where does that leave me? Where is this new R that I wanted? H managed to be nice to me for about a week before he used the L appt as an excuse to pull away again, all the while blaming me for my lack of commitment.
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So, has an agreement to work on a new relationship been achieved? Have you talked to husband about what level of commitment you needed in order to continue in the marriage? What have you negotiated with him so far?

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.