He some how heard I went on a date(he was a friend and it was just dinner). He told me that I was lying and he was going to tell the kids since I raked him through the coals about his affair(who he is living with for 7 months now). I of course got a little upset. He says he is happy where he is at. I have heard in the past that he wasnt happy. But I just wouldnt have anything to do with him,sex. He says he is still bitter about everything and OW says he is an A$$, so why do I want him back. Cuz we have three kids together. He hasnt said anything about the divorce in a long time. I put it on hold and OW found out. Ha!Ha! Little does she know I just told him that I didnt have it in my heart to get the divorce and he is the one who suggested to put it on hold. But he said he just didnt want to fight about it and didnt want it to be costly. He cant afford to get a lawyer. If he suggests it in the future, I will tell him to get it his self.
