My H's xw never even wanted to meet me!! Can you imagine?? I would never want my kids in the presence of anyone I did not know! My H has said nothing about OW meeting kids yet...I am not bringing it up...if he does I am not going to allow it...we are still married for godsake!! I am a very good stepmom and very close to my stepsons...they are devastated by what is going on!! I have known them since they were 2 and 4, they are now 14 and 11!! OW is supposedly 23 and her thongs hang out and her shirts are too short!! I haven't seen her personally but many have!! I do not even think she and H go out. Just a booty call I guess!! Why do H's want to leave the comfort and security of their home and marriage?? I have always been a very faithful wife and H never went without anything!! I was always there to take all the kids so he could play golf...I felt I was the one who could not do everything I wanted!! Part of my GAL is to go out and have fun! I have been doing that when I can...but H is being selfish and only takes daughters when he wants...last night he said he wasn't taking them overnight (one hr b/f he was supposed to p/u) and I told him I had plans and he can't do this stuff at the last minute...his response was well I won't go to work tomorrow so you can go out! Sooo immature....he could have dropped them off in the morning....I am getting so tired...I have to get us up and out of the house by 7 am everyday by myself....one day reprive would be nice! H is supposed to take them tomorrow...we will see!! started new job and has to train. lost last job b/c of ow....UGH
