it does seem like you have it under control but want to find a way to rock the boat a little bit...
Ooh, you hit the nail on the head Ben. Yes, I'm looking for ways to positively impact my sitch.
Things he enjoys doing with the kids? Mostly just playing...tossing them in the air, playing catch, teasing them. He enjoys having S2 in the shop with him (occasionally), as my little boy just SOAKS that place up, walks around and talks in his little man voice and asks "what's this?" and is just smart and cute in general.