I hope so! My H can't have anymore children. We have 2 and H has 2 with his first wife...he was neutered (HAHA) last year! Just when we had no more worries...whamo...gone! I try to take interest in him but he won't really talk to me...waited two days to call and tell me about job...I had already heard it from someone else. I think he has distanced himself from me...maybe due to guilt. I am no longer talking about R or arguing with him...unless its financial. We have been S about 3 months and he still has not moved anything but a few clothes out of the house...I think that is a good thing...maybe he is not sure what he wants?? Can't read into it...seems to only lead to disappointment! I want to talk to him about R so badly but I am not! I checked his checking acct...750 taken out...could that be a retainer fee to file?? I hate knowing I am still attracted to him! Sometimes I think if I did not see him at all it would be better??? I really understand why his xW hates me so much....I am still hoping I was not an A!!