I just spoke to H. I called him and told him I felt very bad about where we left things last night and that I felt bad I wasn't nicer this morning. He said nothing. I said 'Is now a bad time or do you just not have anything to say?' He said 'There's just no answer, so I don't know what we're gonna do'. The gist of the conversation was that he's not giving anymore on this issue, S6's bedtime will remain as it is. I asked what about next time we disagree, are you going to use a heavy hand then as well? He said it depends on how strongly he feels about the issue. I don't see where that leaves much room for co-parenting.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
