Not alot of experiance with this, but I do this it is like a new relationship, and it will be dating again. You have both changed and so its like being with someone new, I would act like this is someone new and do like you would dating someone new. You don't go into a new relationship with huge expectations, and that has to be the case now, take it slow and see what happens.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!